Monday, March 10, 2008

Sunday Morning Makeover

The church as we typically know it is in a serious rut. The culture that we have been commanded to interact with so we can change it sees us as irrelevant. And those of us who are Christians complain that we are too busy to take part in many of the activities that leadership offers (whether or not we really are too busy is up for some debate. The new status symbol of the society we live in is business. Everyone, including kids, have some kind of personal calendar to prove we are busy people. Not everyone has money, but everyone can be busy).
I have come to believe that the people who make up the leadership in our churches are some of the most uncreative people that I can think of. This may be a very general statement, but I think it is true. We have been "doing church" the same way for over two hundred years, and the culture doesn't get it and even those of us in services complain too many times our services are boring - just doing the same ole' thing week after week.
Think of it, we come to church on any given Sunday morning and we sing, someone prays for a little bit (for something that we are told that is so important the time we spend in prayer on Sunday morning is inadequate at best), and then sit and listen to a lecture (we call it listening to a sermon, but any way you cut it it is a lecture), there is no interaction, and very few would be able to tell you what the sermon was about if you asked only a couple of hours later. This is what church in the United States has looked like for way too long. It has worked, for the most part this long because the cultural pressure to go to church was such that if you didn't go you were looked as like something was seriously wrong with you. But our culture no longer thinks that way. In fact, it is completely 180 degrees different. Now if you go to church you are looked at like you are kind of strange and weird. Our culture just doesn't get it. And why should they?
If you have had any problems in your marriage or know someone who has you know that sometimes it is because the marriage has become very predictable, doing the same things over and over again. This is called a relational rut. There is no spontaneity, there is nothing different in your interactions with one another, everything has become so predictable your relationship has become boring. I think that it is the same for the church. The body of believers, the bride of Christ, the light and salt of the world is in such a serious rut that many wonder if there is any real need for the church at all (maybe not here in the states, but we need just look at Europe and see how the church there is on life support and we better not be so proud to think that it can't happen here.)
The good news is that we can change, but it will mean to challenge the status quo and culture of our churches. I propose that we start rethinking how we do church on Sunday mornings. The following are some things that I have been thinking about and sharing with other like-minded Christians that are also concerned about the direction of the church.
I do not believe that we need to do away with preaching. But, I do believe that we should get away from the belief that only one person in our churches are capable of preaching. I cringe when I hear senior pastors refer to the pulpit as their pulpit. The pulpit is God's and we should never forget it. There are other men in the church that are fully capable, learned, mature Christians that can speak with clarity and passion. They should be encouraged and given the opportunity to preach. Plus you just never know, someone might be led into full-time ministry because the church gave them the opportunity to preach.
Another idea would be for pastors to invite people (men and women) who are experts in a given professional field to share their hearts with the people of the church. People that are involved in the public schools, military, the pro-life movement, a Christian environmentalist,etc. are great people to have share why they do what they do, the challenges of being a Christian in such an environment, as well as the triumphs.
How about after a sermon series have a questions and answer Sunday. Have people submit their questions as the series is going on, and then answer as many questions as possible the week right after the last sermon.
Have the church leadership encourage people to write any questions about the Bible, God, theology, doctrine for a month or so and then have the leadership (not just the senior pastor) answer them.
The fact is that we all get tired of listening to the same person week after week, after week no matter how gifted they are. And no one person should have the burden of preaching week after week. Most churches expect their pastors to preach all but very few Sundays and I believe that is wrong. Pastors are capable of doing more than just preach, but their schedules are so tight they have little time for anything else (or they become workaholics). They need breaks, they need to be able to sit and be "poured into" like we do. Pastors can also take that time they use for preparation and exercise some of their other gifts and explore some area of passion in a deeper way.
Another thing we could do is to have "in-house"service opportunities like church clean-up days on Sunday mornings. Everyone who goes to church is there anyway so take advantage of that.
We could also do community service outside the church on Sunday mornings. Have the leaders in the church find things that need to be done in the community and let them lead others in a project. Again, the people are there, they don't have to take any extra time out of their schedules, and the community gets to see our good works and we show the light and love of God in action.
Have a testimony Sunday. Encourage people to share requests, praises, and testimonies (not limited to just "This is how I became a Christian", but share something that God has been doing in their life). I have been in a large church that has over two thousand people as well as a church of slightly over one hundred people on Sunday morning do this so don't offer up excuses why it can't be done.
Have a hymn and chorus sing-along. Have people pick their favorite songs, and maybe even why they like it, then sing them. Pick out some songs and tell the stories as to why they were written. Tell the biographical stories of some of the great hymn writers of days gone by.
Have a Sunday where you do Communion like it was done in the early church- around a real meal. Do a "Brunch Sunday" and give people the opportunity to share their lives with one another while breaking bread.
These are just a few ideas of how we could do church differently from time-to-time. A lot of these ideas used to happen on a Sunday evening service, but most churches don't have them anymore because very few people came. But those that did, and I am one who grew up in a church like that, remember those days fondly. We need to become a real, intimate community of believers again. We need to share our lives with one another. We need to be the kind of body of believers that are willing to do some things differently. We need to show the culture that we are not just relevant, but the only answer to the real needs of every society and every person. We need a Sunday morning makeover.

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